I think that the majority will believe that as a slave, you have no power, you are just there to serve and obey the webcam Dominatrix, and many Mistresses ( especially the youngest ones) will genuinely believe and stick to that. To those young dominatrices, a cam slave exists only to serve and obey every command blindly without having a chance to say yes or no.
Let me tell you some things: this is not true, and I can guarantee that salves have power, and it’s one of the most important for them to become your Goddess.
You can choose what webcam Dominatrix you want to serve.
The perfect Mistress for everyone does not exist, and every slave has different tastes, different fantasies, and different fetish that turn you on! I get several messages from any Domme, and I think this is a good moment to write a post about how I usually make decisions about serving a Domme or another ( I am born to serve!)
The way She looks like
One of the most critical factors for me is the way the Goddess looks like. It’s not only about Her body but manly about the way She dresses. I have several fetishes, but I love foot fetish, and I am always looking for feet in nylons ( I love pantyhose ). For example, if I look at her profile and notice she never dresses stocking or pantyhose or nylons, I could not be interested. This is very important for me, and a Mistress dressing nylons will surely attract my attention. If I even notice she dresses and likes them, she inevitably gets me into serving Her right away. Often, those cam Mistresses are wearing the same outfit, and it looks like they dress a uniform to go to work. I love to see them wearing different stuff and if she will make me think She loves to get ready for a Domination session on webcam.
Her Attitude
Once she catches my attention with her look, I start to look at her profile and photos on camsites more intensively, and I will find out if she offers a free chat.
This way, I can get a better understanding of the kind of Domme She is.
Is she aggressive? Is She evil enough? Is She lifestyle? Does she seem bored? Is she able to mindfuck me?
I can not post a list of things I like and things I don’t. Each Dominatrix is different, and I might want to serve one for a reason, another one for the very opposite of that. So it’s the sum of several factors that makes me go into her BDSM chat room to serve Her or skip and find a webcam Domme I am willing to serve and obey for good.
The approach
If I am finally still interested in serving Her, the next step is to approach Her.
I will be straight here: I never waste any Mistress time, and I always have and will always have total respect for Her and her precious time!
So how to approach Her? First and very important: never take hours of Her time talking to Her on free chat or asking dumb questions. You should be direct and ask directly what interest you and what you need to know.
Nothing else. I know all those webcam Dominatrix are all super busy, and I know the right way of making myself noticed is with a tribute.
Some of them are easy-going than others, and they end up giving me some attention. Even a short reply to my messages can be beautiful, makes me feel like she’s aware of what’s happening around her, she’s not just sitting there waiting for sessions. That’s a beautiful thing.
The First Domination
Time to enter her private femdom chat room and have my first domination session with Her. I am truly interested in worshiping Her, I like the way she looks, and Her outfits and Her cruel behavior make me willing to obey. I am sure I want to be at her feet!
It happens I understand She is not for me during the very first session!
Of course, I don’t expect her to understand all about me in just one session or the very first session to be absolute perfection.
There a few things here and there, and when those things happen, I usually get turned off. It’s not even worth mentioning those things because we are all different, and every single session is different for the other. But if I get any of those signals, then the session can be the first and last one with that Mistress. It happened more than a few times, unfortunately.
Resume
So this is the “system” I usually follow each time I find out a webcam Mistress I didn’t know before. It may seem odd or too complicated, but believe me, every (lifestyle) slave does the same. We all want to have the best webcam domination session ever, and there are thousands of potential Mistresses out there. We need to choose carefully. What do you think?
